Huda was nine years old when she underwent female genital mutilation (FGM). Now in her mid-60s, the English teacher at a private university in Khartoum, Sudan, had pledged not to cut her own three daughters. The procedure, which involves the ritual cutting of a girl’s genitals, had caused her to suffer during sex and childbirth. But in the mid-1980s, when her eldest daughter was almost 10, Huda caved to pressure from her mother-in-law, who accused her of not following the customs of “good families”. The implication was that Huda wasn’t from one. 

When Huda relented, her one condition was that a female doctor and not a “cutter” – usually a local woman with no medical degree, unsterilised equipment and no anaesthetic – perform the procedure. But when the day came, Huda couldn’t go through with it. Instead of backing out, Huda sent her mother and mother-in-law to supervise the cutting. 

Huda’s family background but I asked her whether it would have made a difference if the practice had been illegal when she was cut. Would that have given her more resolve in saying no to her husband’s family? 

“It wouldn’t have made a difference,” she said. “It just meant we wouldn’t have been able to use a doctor.” 

Despite positive headlines the problem still persists. The practice is still legal in Sudan, but even in Ghana, for example, where FGM was banned in 1994,

As Better Politics correspondent, But FGM is an example of how the power of human networks can be harnessed against the state to resist positive legislation. Eradicating FGM will not be achieved by politicians but by harnessing the power of community against the practice. 

Why the law can’t stop FGM

Unlike male circumcision, which mostly takes place in infancy, FGM is usually done later in a female’s life, causing extensive pain and trauma. In the most extreme version, the labia and the clitoris are removed, and the vagina sewn up only to allow for an aperture to pass urine. The procedure often results in health complications that can plague a victim for life – infections, vaginal pain, tearing during childbirth, and even infertility. 

The mothers, aunts and grandmothers who subject their own daughters to FGM are not cruel. They are not sadistic or manipulated by men. They are often educated – Huda has a postgraduate degree, for example – and come from across the class divide. What they always are is

in wiping out the practice because they focus on illegality rather than changing minds and behaviour. Even in the west, where laws are more enforceable than in societies where FGM is deeply ingrained, there have been few persecutions, and even fewer whistleblowers.

Multiple issues conspire to make it difficult to report cases of FGM. Survivors are usually minors, too young to take matters in their own hands and inform authorities. And even if they did, they would be informing on their own family, which would mean breaking up their family, foster care, and more trauma. 

The mothers, aunts and grandmothers who subject their own daughters to FGM are not cruel. They are not sadistic or manipulated by men.

One of the most prevalent and erroneous justifications for FGM in some African countries is that FGM is mandated by Islam, but the practice is not advocated by Other justifications include hygiene, and the belief that mutilation makes a woman’s sexuality complete, as any external sexual organs are considered male.

But the main difficulty eradicating FGM is its association with being part of an “in group”, an exclusive, typically small, group of people with a shared interest or identity. Huda’s two other daughters were not relieved when their mother refused to cut them – they were jealous. Even at a young age, they had regarded the cutting of their oldest sister as a coming-of-age event, one which celebrated her and ushered her into the next stage of life. So on top of pressure from the older women in the family, Huda had to deal with her own daughters pestering her to be cut. 

The way this in-group is defined when it comes to FGM is rich and layered, interlocking to create an almost impenetrable structure of identity. Religion, culture, class and tribalism all conspire. Loss of status or ejection from a family or social structure can happen if a woman rebels against FGM.

FGM persists because it maintains the status of the in-group’s exclusivity – not because of any belief in the value of the practice itself. So the argument for cutting is resistant to government legislation and, in fact, to change itself. 

If you want to change people’s minds, use their own language 

The solution to ending some clearly barbaric practices isn’t fixating on the pain and the trauma. The challenge instead is undoing the powerful socialisation that renders such pain and trauma a necessary rite of passage. 

Stigmatising FGM requires constant fixation on the damage it inflicts on a woman’s fertility and the increased risk of injury and infection in childbirth. But that must be followed by using the very language of status, combatting the perception that FGM promotes a woman’s prospects. If FGM is meant to enhance a woman’s value in the marriage market, the counterargument should be that FGM increases the risk of infertility, which damages that value. 

Legislation is a blunt tool when it comes to practices deeply ingrained in a community’s identity

But this further step of using a community’s own language is needed to go beyond appealing to emotion and health costs – instead associating FGM with damaged prospects. This is a counterintuitive measure as it adopts the same principles (that a woman’s value is only in her place as a womb or sexual object)

but there is little evidence that they are tied to legal status. Instead, close community ties are meaning people tend to define themselves less by their place in communities they were born into. As a result, they invest less in their status as part of an in-group.

In Huda’s case, the guilt that followed her oldest daughter’s cutting made her steadfast in refusing to allow her other two daughters to undergo the procedure. That resolve was eased by moving abroad with her family for work, away from the pressures of her husband’s family. 

Legislation is a blunt tool when it comes to practices deeply ingrained in a community’s identity. The way forward is appealing to that identity using the community’s own language and tools.  

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